Thursday, May 22, 2008

Friends, and Feelings

This post is about a friend. A wonderful great friend whom I cherish more every day. We all have them.

I will spare you the long version of how we met, suffice to say it was a long time ago. Then we 're-met' about a year, year and a half ago. See when I was in a toxic relationship, the other half was quite jealous of her and my other friends and forced me to cut off contact.

Then quite by accident, I reconnected with her through one of our mutual friends. To me at least when I re-found her it was like a flipping of a switch in my brain.

Ever had the feeling that you were missing something but didn't know what?  I did, until I re-found her.

Now its like my brain is mostly whole again. This is one person that I feel totally completely and utterly at ease with. I will, and can talk to her about anything, and everything, as well as nothing all at the same time.

In the last week she has made me realize how truly lucky I am to have a friend like her. A friend that I can laugh with, cry with and cry because of. A friend that makes me not afraid to actually have feelings and share them(though I still may not LIKE the feelings but that's a different blog post).

So thanks Tiff, your the best friend a girl could ever ask for.

1 comment:

Tiffany said...

You are such a brat! LOL Is this pay back for the other day when I posted that Thanks for Being My Friend poem? If so, touche! You got me crying. I admit that I feel--and felt--the same way. The day that I lost contact with you, I felt I lost a piece of who I was becoming. And the day that we found each other again, I felt complete and back to my old self. You and I have helped each other through the tough crap and the not so bad; have had laughs and cries.

For that, I wouldn't change a single day, hour, minute, second or millisecond! I would rather die than not have the knowledge of your friendship and kindness. You are the true definition of a sister. I wish I had one like you.

Love and Blessings,